BTW it is totally okay to be uncomfortable with any of the values i mentioned here (exceptions are minors*, pro-contacts, bullies, bigots, & hateful people), i myself am uncomfortable with many things, even tho i accept everyone, i still have my own opinions, the difference is i choose to bite my tongue and set differences aside, no matter how weird, for the wellness and health of others. i never want to be someone untrustworthy, nor an oppressor, i am a friend to all and anyone can come to me with anything no matter how big or small, ill be there to listen

MINORS*
please be 18+ when following my NSFW accounts!
*reminder: my instagram is my only SFW -18 account! this is the only account minors should be on.

PRO-CONTACT
i do not allow room for abusive content nor harm, i may be pro-para but i am not pro-abuse. animals, children, and the dead cannot consent.

ANTIS
i am proship / profiction meaning i do not feel inclined to harass or reject others for their personal fictional fantasies! i do not believe fiction is equivalent to reality, it can affect it only if you are weakminded enough to allow yourself to, fortunately most people im this world arent! if you in any way believe in harrassing, belittling, or judging others over taboo fictional content, feel taboo fictional content and media are against your moral alignment, or are someone who believes it represents my morals as a person, my content is not for you!
closeted / neutral ship allowed!!

ANIT-PARAPHILE
i am pro-paraphile, and a paraphile myself, reminder that you cannot get rid of a paraphilia or paraphilic disorder! it develops with you and stays, but luckily many "harmful" paras such as the big 3, do not have sexual contact with their specific paras, they are anti-contact! you can get therapy and learn many coping mechanisims such as art, literature, and fictional media to cope with having a para! i may be pro-para but i am not pro-abuse. animals, children, and the dead cannot consent.

EXCLUSE
i do not allow room for the exclusion of any lgbtq+ identity, nor those who wish ill will, harm, and/or misfortune upon others who are different than them. i might be a binary trans man, but i know what it is like to be unaccepted and you probably do too, do not allow yourself to become the oppressor of our community, it wasnt too long ago we werent accepted either. its okay to not understand, its okay to be uncomfortable and have a dni, what isnt okay is attacking, bullying and speaking lowly of others struggling the same battle as you, it is beyond hypocritical.

ANTI SELF-DX, DISABILITY POLICING, & FAKECLAIMING
i am for self diagnosis, there are plenty of barriers that prevent someone from being able to get a diagnosis, from skin color to finances not everyone is privledged enough to get the healthcare they desprately need, someones medical history is non of your bussiness, be grateful they share anything at all, i am and i am prideful of anyone and everyone who has a disability. with that being said, do not police others disabilities, even if someone has different symptoms for the same thing you have, everyone is different and the brain is freaking weirddddd! dont fakeclaim or belittle others for being different, learn from them and understand their differences instead.

NOT PLUR
if you do not practice PLUR ( Peace, Love, Unity, and Respect ) towards all beings, big or small, weird or normal, young or old, please repsect that i do not wish to personally interact with those who dont value peace, love, unity, or respect, you may still follow but respect my wishes to not personally interact or follow back, thank you!.

FIRESTARTERS
if you are constantly seeking a fight / argument against people who you know for a fact disagree, you are odd and should talk about this issue in therapy, i do not wish to entertain nor befriend those seeking a fight, it is draining for me, you may still follow but respect my wishes to not personally interact or follow back, thank you!.

BULLIES, BIGOTS, & HATEFUL PEOPLE
I WILL NEVER TOLERATE INTOLERANCE, I WILL NEVER STAND BESIDE AN OPPRESSOR, AND I WILL NEVER BE THE OPPRESSOR. i am black, transgender, bisexual, mentally & physically disabled, and radincluse, i support any and all identities no matter how strange or "weird", i do not care! i will ALWAYS be a safe space for anyone who isnt hateful! in my personal opinion, i believe no identity is inherently harmful and all identities are equally invalid, we are stronger together than we are apart. pushing hatred of things you dont understand is not PLUR and is not right, kill the cop in your head before speaking to me, you do not have to understand why others are the way they are, but bare minimum is to accept others no matter how different, in this community we are ALL misunderstood, ostrascized, and wrongly labled, do NOT become the oppressor & praise what you preach, if you are PLUR PROVE IT BY BEING KIND AND ACCEPING! if you force others to confine to your impossible standars do not interact, my content is not for you!

a little disclaimer before following me, and ALL content warning tags of themes that may show up in my art! if this sounds icky to you you may want to dni!